Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parenting. Show all posts

27 April 2013

My All



They are the battery that keeps me going.

They are the reason to keep my hopes high and keep my sanity intact.

With them I believe, with them I dream, with them I live...

Remember make believe in you
All the things I said I'd do
I wouldn't hurt you, like the world did me
Keep you safe, I'd keep you sweet
Everything that I went through,
I'm grateful you won't have to do
I know that you will have to fall
I can't hide you from it all....
.....RUN-Pink



31 January 2013

Graduation Letter for my Son


Its been a while.... for now let me share to you this open letter to my first born who is about to achieve a new milestone on his early life.



Vividly I can still picture our first meeting, every pain and fear I had after 23 hours of induce labor had gone after seeing you. My crybaby, even from the start nobody can force you to do something out of your will.

Little by little you develop and discover things by yourself. Your face lights up in every successful bravery and little tears show with every failed attempt, if only I could take out the pain, but those aches and bruises will bring out a better person in you. Your personality and attitude starts to show and I am glad that you are an affectionate and loving child and I hope you retain it until you mature.

I pray that as you grew older you learn things more than I do, you achieve life as you aspire it to be. But for now I am very much please that you are a happy and active kid, ABC and 123 can still wait for your attention you are just starting enjoy what life has to offer. You will always be my pride, my joy and my little baby I named James Levi. 

28 August 2011

Mommy


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I always thought mothers are interfering, over acting and domineering being who always gets into the way in their child's freedom. And that outlook does not change now that I am a mom already, with certainty I conclude that mothers are indeed intrusive and selfish because they or we are designed that way because nature made us that way.

Mothers have to deal with a lot of things with regard to their children, caring, nurturing, protecting and sacrificing.

Who would not interfere if you think your child safety is at stake. They may think that are you over reacting in things, but they didn't realize that mom's only concern is her child's well-being nothing less. Domineering it may, but mother's tends to be one because they know better what's good for their kids even from the very start (taking in big sickening tablets of folic acid, iron supplements and gallons of calcium).

When Mom's let their child on freedom, she is making a major sacrifice of letting go, heart wreaking  just thinking of her child in tears or in pain, but she got to do it to give her precious the freedom of living ang learning, the freedom of having an identity of his own.

“Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.” - Elizabeth Stone

26 June 2011

Living and Levitating


This is my official entry to Levy's Contest. 

What are the things/situations that would make you feel like levitating?


I am very "mababaw" with just a piece of flower will put me up to the cloud 9. With our present situation, one thing that will surely make me levitate is being with my one and only bubuy. He is my main source of happiness, with just a smile from him will eventually ease out every ache I have from a day of work.
Vividly I can still picture our first meeting, every pain and fear I had after 23 hours of induce labor had gone after seeing him and my first kiss on his cheek was the last thing in my  memory inside the operating room.
He is two and half year old right now with full of curiosity in his world and always armed with questions of what and why. I am looking forward to be with him by the end of the year, anticipating his hug and kiss is enough to put me up high levitating through the clouds of happiness. Hearing him utter "Mommy I love you" in person is heaven!

--- Sorry dear Levy I can't find any jump shot, hope this one will do :)

20 April 2011

The Pains of Being a "away-from-home" Mommy



He is my son during our Skype video calls, he wants us to "karga" (Filipino term for carry a baby) him over our place. He was confused and got really angry after realizing that he can't actually be with us physically, my mom told us that he cried to sleep after it, same with me too, I sob to my comfort, releasing all the sadness and homesickness I had inside.

He is only two years and three months old and starting to wonder, asking a lot, comprehending on all things that's new to him. At his age, curiosity is all he got and I feel so helpless not to be there for him though I know my mom is there to stand-in for me, I still feel responsible on nourishing his mind and emotions. Wish I could be there for him.

19 February 2011

Child's Play


Early this week a coworker ask me if I have any idea if where she could purchase scrubs, what scrub? The thing you use on cleaning? I asked her since I was clueless of her inquiry. She laughingly explain it to me that she brought her daughter in a hospital during their routine check up and the little girl got fond of playing doctor since then. She wanted to buy a whole pair of hospital uniform plus medical accessories like stethoscopes and blood pressure device. She ecstatic that in an early age her baby is starting to dream of what she wanted to be in the future. You can see in her dreamy eye how delighted she is seeing her girl playing doctor and dreaming that one she will have "Doctora" (Lady Doctor).

I told her I have no idea since I am just new in Singapore and hardly familiar with their places other than malls  and suggested that we just search the net to buy medical scrubs online. If we were in the Philippines it will be easier to contact a local "mananahi" (dress maker) to personally sew one or visit Bambang surely they got one.

18 February 2011

Learning to say...


I had been anticipating to hear him say that, calling me "Mommy" and he does, a month before his first birthday. He was just starting to mumble words then, but I am so sure he utter that word during our playtime, mimicking his Didi (after I got pregnant my husband started calling me mommy).

This afternoon I called my mom, a routine I got used to, to check on them, she told me that he had gotten so attached to her already, he cries every time my mom was out of sight and that she now knows him as Mommy and me.... He would just point onto my picture if asked "San si Mommy Kayth?" (Where is Mommy Kayth?). I am not his Mommy anymore, but just Mommy Kayth. I am not so sure if what I felt, disappointment? A little maybe, hurt? Somehow, but one thing is clear that I missed him so much and I ached badly to be a mom to him again.

Maybe this is one of the prices I need to pay for being away from him, I know this is just the start, the first one and a lot more heart pinching thing to come. I heard stories of other OFW moms where their children won't come to them the first time of seeing them again, it was heart-breaking moment.

11 November 2010

Johnson's Baby Shower Launch


"Sa unang sandali, sa bawat sandali, ikaw lang."
(Johnson's Baby Mission Statement)

Back with my first blogger event courtesy of Nuffnang, it was held last 3rd of November at Manila Intercontinental Hotel in Makati around lunch time. Food is fine, but I hardly enjoyed since I was so overwhelmed seeing bloggers for the first time in flesh, it was like seeing a celebrity, I was stars trucked hee hee!
so star trucked... I only manage to take pictures of Phepot & Fedz back, I was so shy...
The event was hosted lively by Tricia Chiongbian and started with introduction of J&J’s main man Juan Carlos Garcia who share a piece of his fatherhood experience and introduce to all the Johnson’s Baby World of Firsts with theme “Unang Tibok, Unang Galaw, Unang Haplos”.
The Launch was also joined by very pregnant and sexy moms like Ria Tanjuatco Trillo with her third pregnancy, Lexi Schulze in her second, Marielle Santos Po in her Buena mano and Akiko Thompsons, but tle latter was not around. The ladies share their experiences in pregnancy, how one can stand “paglilihi” phase and motherhood as general.
The last part of the event was a game for three single ladies (not mother yet) where they experience a make-believe child care from bathing to dressing up a baby, oh nothing to worry no child was drowned since they only bathe a doll hee hee!
The best part of it, we got to take home some goodies, a basket full of J&J products and some souvenir tokens from Akiko and Marielle’s Baby Shower.

I had a great time and thanks to Nuffnang and Johnson’s Baby.

09 September 2010

Specail Gifts for true Bedtime Believers!




Calling all loving & Caring Mommies out there! In continuous search for comfort and perfect sleep Johnsons & Johnson's got a Survey for all MOM's, MUMMY's, NANAY's & INAY's out there. It was a 16 stages or phase survey of how to have a good night and best of all first 10o mommies who would take the survey will be given a special token as a sign of gratitude from the Johnson’s Baby Bedtime.

Click on the badge above or click this to start the survey and experience a good night sleep.

09 July 2010

How Will I Be A Mindful Parent?


"The greatest gift to give your child is yourself." - Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting by Jon Kabat-Zinn and Myla Kabat-Zinn


The above sentence cough my attention early last 7th of July 2009 while reading the Lifestyle Parenting section of a broadsheet, and since I really got no time to read that morning I just take note of the author and the article and take note to find it on the net for some reading later that day. It was Titled Are You A Mindful Parent? Roots and Wings by Cathy Babao-Guballa.

I am "bagito" (amateur) when it comes to parenting and I try to learn it day by day with the help of my son, and everyday seems to be an examination day specially now that he is in naughty stage aww! Armed with big scream and made-up cry which he mustered successfully in getting what he wants owh! He is really getting a bit bratty these days and fright strikes me that I may no longer cope with his continuous learning in Bachelor of Brattiness. I carefully choose the kind of discipline to impose, a scoop of diplomacy and a sprinkle of spanking, but sometimes a big serving of spanking is more likely served since my string is short that I tend to lose quickly on virtue of patience and who would not every time he throws his toys on our TV set or better yet to his playmates.

I sometimes think if how will I raise him, should I be strict since at this early he is showing signs of a future frequent trip in principal's office, or should I loosen up and have the tons of patience to instill in him right values and conducts. Right now it is my dilemma and reading Ms. Cathy's article I find the book "Everyday Blessings: The Inner Work of Mindful Parenting" a must-read one which somehow can help me unravel the tricks and trade of parenting. Better head-off to the nearest bookstore this weekend, need to buy the book.
 

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